For people who might feel vulnerable at this time of the year (trying to stabilise, reduce or stop their substance use)
Relapsing into past behaviours can be a danger at this time of year especially when you are feeling vulnerable. However, there are things you can do to help yourself avoid problems. Here are Crew’s FIVE main tips on keeping yourself safe...
Number 1: Look after yourself
Take care of yourself by improving your general health and wellbeing i.e. eating regularly and using relaxation techniques can help you remain calm and gain perspective (often our perceptions are skewed into thinking everyone else is having a great time! When in fact other people are often stressed to the max).
TIP: Use a relaxation technique before you go to bed to help build a better sleep pattern.
Relaxing the body: Controlling Breathing
· Place one hand on your stomach
· Breath in through your nose to the silent count of four, allowing your stomach to swell
· Breath out gently through the mouth to the count of six, allowing the stomach to return to normal
· Count to two and inhale again
· Try to get a rhythm going, counting to four on the in-breaths and to six as you exhale. You are aiming to take about 8 – 12 breaths per minute.
At first this will feel uncomfortable and as though you are not getting enough air. However, with practice, this slower rate of breathing will feel comfortable. Practice will also make you aware of what is your normal breathing rate – this will vary slightly for different people. When you feel anxious and start breathing faster you will be able to bring your breathing back under control.
If you take prescribed medication, make sure you have enough to tide you over the festive period.
TIP: If you find yourself caught short/you run out, call NHS 24 on 08454 24 24 24 where they will be able to talk to you about your concerns. Also, be aware that there is an out-of-hours pharmacy available at Boots in Shandwick Place, open Christmas Eve, Christmas day and Boxing Day. Click here to find out times
Number 2: Understand your past behaviour/triggers
Be aware of the situations that are triggers to use for you and avoid them or seek support from friends’ family or professionals.
TIP: A really useful tool to help manage this has the rather unfortunate acronym of D.E.A.D.S.
D...DELAY – delay acting on the feeling/craving – even just for a few minutes and see if your feelings have changed?
E....ESCAPE – if you find yourself in a situation where you feel vulnerable/ feel the urge to use – how can you escape?
A....AVOID – try avoiding situations where you could feel vulnerable or try avoid being around people or in places that could trigger cravings/urges for you.
D....DISTRACT – what could you do to distract yourself – make a cup of tea or coffee (caffeine free might be bestJ)? Go out of the room/ place where you are having cravings?
S.....SUBSTITUTE – what activity could you do instead? Go for a walk? Go to the gym?
Coping with cravings:
It is important to realise that urges and cravings are to be expected when you are going through the process of changing your drug use. Feeling these cravings can also be a response to people, situations and moods connected to your old drug habits and environments. It can also be a sign that you are in a high-risk situation and should be careful.
TIP: You may have a fear of being completely overwhelmed by the craving/urge and think that the only way to relieve the craving is by using drugs. This is not the case. Using Hippy techniques has been proven to work, try this: Imagine an ocean wave and how it moves. It starts as a small wave and slowly but steadily grows and grows until it reaches its peak, then slowly reverses the process until it disappears. This too is the process of urges and cravings; you should try to ride the craving as a surfer rides the wave and see that craving off dude!.
Number 3: Replace the habit
“Self love my Liege is not as vile a sin as self loathing” W. Shakespeare
Try new exercise or social activities. This can distract you from cravings and may also lead to something you enjoy and want to make a permanent part of your life.
Think of the money you might save and what positive thing you could put it to, go on spoil yourself or someone you love. If you’re skint ask yourself if you really need the debt.
Number 4: Set achievable, small goals to lead you toward a bigger goal
This can be about getting through the next hour and most people can get by without doing something for an hour. Then do it again and in no time 24 hours will have passed! Taking things one day at a time is not merely a cliché it really works, especially when your world seems like shite. Think about who you can call...who’d like to hear from you? Sometimes thinking of someone else to help takes your thoughts away from your own worrying.
TIP: Remember what you want to achieve and think about how much you have worked towards it already. Make sure that achieving the goal is something you can do and doesn’t depend on others to make it happen.
Number 5: Use the support available
Find and make use of as much support from family and friends. Research shows that you’re more likely to succeed with the support of others.
Talk to someone if the craving is bad:
If you need help immediately over Christmas and New Year, click here to access a list of some local services you may find helpful.
And remember... Crew is here to support you!
Crew Shop will be open on times below over the Christmas period and resume normal open hours from Wednesday 4th January 2012. Crew Support Services will also be available for telephone support between Christmas and New Year, click here to access our opening times.
Finally if all else fails and you do lapse or relapse evidence has shown that the sooner you get back to support the more likely for a sustained recovery. Most people who are attempting to reduce, stabilize or stop their substance use will experience lapses however it is not inevitable and if you use some of the tips above you might just avoid it altogether.
If you have found other things help please drop us a line and we will share it with others for future publications and information provision.
Have a great festive season,
From everyone at Crew X